So after my stop over in Singapore I FINALLY get to London.
It’s here I pick up my BRP (biometric residence permit) that you always need when entering the UK. I find it kind of redundant as you still need to fill out a landing card on arrival after being anywhere and also it doesn’t get you in any faster at the border patrol. Why it’s considered so necessary I suppose is for applying for jobs.
FYI I repeat as soon as you find a permit residence apply for your National Insurance Number (NIN). It’s like your tax file number and is completely necessary to get a job. Don’t be like me who applied for a job and got it, but had to wait a month for the stupid bloody number!
Also good luck trying to open a bank account. Seriously it’s ridiculous how nit- picky they are about you proving your residency. It’s the most difficult thing I encountered and found it so odd about how strict they are just opening a bloody bank account.
I didn’t get approved by banks and it was only because my partner went through a teacher’s agency that helped him set it up that I was able to jointly use to deposit my wage.
I eventually made my way to Leeds and honestly I wish I knew how different life would be here.
I found a job fairly easily at Marks and Spencers and they were pretty good to work for.
What I found hard to adjust to was how the Brits use so many different words for types of food. It was so weird. For example a simple bread roll; a bap, bread cake, tea cake. They have mushy peas with their fish and chips. MUSHY PEAS. The horror of swallowing a spoon of mushy peas as my work mates looked on was horrifying. I felt like Monica from friends saying ‘MMM yummy’ even though it was FAR from yummy. Yorkshire Pudding is not a pudding it’s more like a pie; a pile of meat either beef or chicken covered in potato. An ice block is an ice lolly. They have a dessert pudding called spotted dick. I laughed when I saw it sitting in the work fridge thinking they were just pulling my leg but nope it’s a real dessert here. Honestly trying to learn the lingo was bloody tough.
Accompanied with the Yorkshire accent I really struggled. Often I’d just nod and laugh at my work mates and hope they weren’t asking me a question when we spoke because I had no bloody clue what they were mumbling to me.
Oh and saying pounds and pence… I never want to say again. A few times I’d slip up and say dollars or cents to the customer who would look at me like I told them I’m from outer space, whilst my work mates would be snickering as they looked on.
My accent got mistaken for American so many times here I couldn’t believe it!
Get used to people talking about the weather and whinging about it whether it’s hot, cold, raining, snowy, windy, sunny or cloudy. Seriously it’s the topic most spoken about every single bloody day.
But what I loved most about my six months is seeing the snow. I was in Leeds for the Beast from the East and holy crap was it a sight to see! The snow was so amazing especially since it was my first time seeing it. I was so incredibly happy that I experienced such great snow fall.
After all this though, honestly I missed home. My friends and my family. I also just missed the Aussie way of just getting in and doing things. You see someone needs help, you help em. Not in England. People tend to keep to themselves and even though I had work friends I didn’t socialise much outside of work. I honestly feel like there’s no place like home.
I decided to do some travelling through Europe for the summer before heading home where my heart still belongs.
My final opinion of England frankly (and this is probably a pretty unpopular opinion) but you’re kinda over-rated… I just don’t see how Aussie’s make the move and fall in love here and stay. Six months has been more than enough for me to go running back to the Land Down Under. Home feels so clean, free and just has this ambience that is indescribable. I can’t wait to feel the warm Aussie sun on my skin again!
Day two in Singapore was another very humid day but amazing nonetheless.